Tragic events happen to everyone, and they certainly stick with you and can change your life forever. But do you ever think about those truly “A-HA” moments, the ones that change your life for the better?
Focusing on the positive life-changing moments rather than the negative life-changing moments is a healthy way to go through life. For most of the negative ones, there is a corresponding positive one, two, three, or more. The more you deeply ponder the negatives, the positives far outweigh them. Of course, it all boils down to attitude. You can focus only on the negative and remain bitter, angry, and disappointed, or you can think of all the positive and good life-changing events and remain grateful and at peace. Choose to focus on the positive!!